We all know what our culture considers ideal for women, to be skinny in shape and look like a super model. I know a lot of women that try very hard to achieve that look, through aerobics and dance classes.
My question is what is the ideal for a male. Is it 6 pack abs, skinny and in shape like the women, hairless body builder perhaps?
I am a man and I currently weigh 195lbs at 5'10" tall, I am looking to start an exercise program and am wondering what kind of an unrealistic goal I should work towards to appear more sexy to women, to be noticed from accross the room.
sexy buttock, long dick
for me...
an ideal man should be beautiful in the inside.
but for society they have to be 6 pack, nice skin and all the ****
of course I loooove hot guys...but thats not all I look for in a man
What is the point of having a hot guy next to you and be treated like sh!t???
I rather have a normal guy that treats me like a princess and have his eyes only for me!
6 packs are nice but dont go over board. As long as a guy is fit does it for me. Of course every woman has different ideas just like men like women in all different shapes and sizes
Ahem - do you want the opinion of an old lady, or just the young, pretty ones? Lol - to be noticed in a favourable way you should be healthy, in good shape, and well groomed. Doesn't help much to be noticed from across the room if she runs from your BO later on. Not fat, not thin. Muscular, yes, but not too much. Look at competing swimmers/divers, they often have good looking bodies. Wide shoulders are good, and muscular arms. Tall is not necessary, I've met VERY sexy men that came up to my shoulders only (I'm 174 cms). I know some are in favour of shaving off body hair, I'm not, I think a moderately hairy chest is attractive. This is from across the swimming pool, not from across the room, lol.
Oh, and you should have a good haircut. Find a really good scissor wizard and humbly pay what he asks - a clumsy haircut can spoil otherwise great looks.
Hmmm - have I covered it all now? Oh, well, what would you care, I'm just an old lady. But what tales I could tell, lolol.
Well it's all a matter of opinion for both sexes. Personally I think a man just being in good shape, but not overly muscular is most appealing to me... but that's just my opinion. :)
You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. What is most important is how you feel when you look in the mirror, get dressed for the day and undressed at the end of the day, not what other people think.
Most women would say that confidence (not arrogance) is most noticeable from across the room.
Good luck. :)
tall,(at least your height), six pack abs, gotta have muscles,(but not too much). one of the first things i will notice is if a dude has broad shoulders, i don't know why, but i love it.
don't listen to gracie g, you'd look anorexic if you weight was 130 at 5' 10''! more between 150 and 170.
i like chubbiness or total muscle i dnt like skiny men though euugh
HAIRY BIG BALLS A HAIRY BACK AND SHOULDERS.
YOU ALSO SHOULD HAVE A BIG DICK. 8" AND UPWARDS. YOU CAN'T GO WRONG.
YOU SJOLD ALSO SMOKE AND DRINK LOTS OF BEER AND GET PISSED ALL THE TIME.
THEY ALSO LIKE TO BE CALLED HO'S
BE OPEN WITH YOUR SEXUALLITY AND PLAY WITH YOURSELF, WOMEN LOVE THIS SORT OF THING.
GOODLUCK !!
well im a female and well the guy has 2 b in shape meaning he should hav a little muscle goin on but he cant b a freakin beast like all those other bodybuilders. i mean, hav u seen them? yech!!!! u dont hav 2 b as skinny as sum women r but just b in shape. get sum abs and not full out. u should tan and if u think u hav the confidence then u could go and run around ur neighborhood w/ ur shirt off and mayb u mite attract a really pretty girl.
Would you find me attractive? a woman like 95lbs 5'2
Well, I would probably say not!!
Anyways..... I would say you have a cute smile and a body like jessy metcalf
if u want to look sexy, work for a slim, but muscular physique.
also, u should aim for 130 lbs at least.
Personally, I think that huge body-builder muscles are unattractive. If you just stay fit and somewhat muscular, that IS attractive. You don't need to be skinny, that it just awkward.
XO - LO
tall 6ft plus, skinny not muscly
muscular. but not too muscular that youu look gross.
six pack
but not that its bulging out. just a faded one
you all should know that everyones body is different remember the hourglass shape? the pear shape? I think there's also an apple shape but those are a woman's physique. What YOU want to accomplish is an upside down triangle in your upper body... meaning it can either be a a slim waist or abs whichever you prefer and broader bulk more shapely chest, back and shoulders. You don't have to worry about having a big butt cause that's for the women... a triangle going upwards placed on the lower body because a womans body changes throughout their life during puberty, pregnancy, menopause I think their hips get wider right? so anyways women have more hips than men do which is what gives them their curves. big buttocks and wide hips is what gives a womans shapely curvy physique. Anyways I hope I made sense remember ...guys should have a bigger upper body and women bigger lower body. If a woman has the hourglass shape she has well "big boobs" :) and butt which is the physique most women want.
Remember
male- down triangle- big chest and small waist the triangle is big at the shoulders,chest and it gets smaller as it goes to your waist
female- upwards triangle- big buttocks,wide hips,small waist. Triangle point starts at the waist and triangle gets bigger as it goes to buttocks
if anyone knows what I'm talking about could you please make things clearer if you can cause i feel like im not making any sense :)
I got this quote from bodybuilding.com
"The ideal male bodybuilding shape is supposed to be the upside down triangle, right? - broad shoulders tapering down to a smaller waist and slim hips."
"However, the ideal female form would be the hourglass. Chest and hips about the same measurements"
wish i had pics oh well hoped i helped
I like soft muscle tone ...
nothing too bulky.
Ok well you dont want to be to muscular because its scary but and a faded 6 pack and still stay fit you would look fine
(im guessing your goin to wanna shave your chest hair or the 6 pack will look weird)
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