<h1 class="subject">Why do women believe working out makes them sexy..when in reality they lose their feminity and sexiness?</h1>

Many women work out like tons...working out muscles and all. and think that they get better buttocks and body.

While is true that they may get slimmer, doing harcore workouts makes them gain muscle difinition which prety much destroys the natural sexy curves and smooth lines in their body.

i dont think workouts make women sexy...they just get muscular and ugly. For example even the ones that dont do weights .. they run alot and stuff.. so they get big clearly defined thigh muscles.

On the other hand the real sexy ones dont do all the billy blanks or other workouts like that.. dont get muscled..so they are really cute and sexy. They exercise but it's not harcore stuff so they remain smooth and sexy.

AND THEY HAVE HOT BODY without!! exercising to death.

I see all these infomercials and the women have hard ripped abs.. obviously thats the result from working out lots. do women want to be like that?

That is your opinion and taste, and that is more ore less the opinion of so many men, maybe in part 'cause it's the social traditional way of thinking, or maybe 'cause they are not strong enough!

Developing more muscles and strength is not exclusive for men!

Femininity and sexiness has nothing to do with muscles! Its about their mind, their attitude and the 'use of their curves and eyes'...

A 'shapy' woman is read as a healthy one, being muscular or not, One with at least a firm good shape (curvy), is simply more physically attractive to most men (or the like-minded) than a fatty or a skinny one. And for sure, a sporty girl is simply healthier.

Anyway, physical attraction is first, about personal tastes.

Believe it or not, many women who work out do so for the health benefits, not because they are trying to look a certain way. Why is a well muscled woman not sexy?

How do you think we get the hot body? Of course we need to lose weight to become thin as you like. And you need to exercise to lose weight.

I totally agree with you!.....

I think that a lot of women have become programmed into believing that it's attractive. It's portrayed as sexy and being in control of your body.

I went through a stage where i thought the same and worked myself so hard at the gym however i eventually gave it up and now i don't exercise at all. Funny enough i'm much more confident now then i was when i was doing all that exercising and dieting.

I have a typical Latina shape like JLo. I never put on weight and like having soft feminine curves. My boyfriend loves my body that way and i know he would hate it if i started to exercise the way i used to.

Women need to start paying attention to what MEN actually like not what we're told in the media.

Unfortunately though, it's a proven fact that women aim for things to get other womens' approval not mens'.

Chi Chi x.