Obviously from one of my previous questions none find male strippers sexy in the least dispite having the six pack abs and buff bodie, etc. Many found them to be comical and a source of riducule.
Curious as to what you think makes a man sexy?
Please try and be specific and detailed.
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I see men with stripper bodies at the gay club a lot.
I find men in general sexy. Give me a nerd wearing Axe deodorant talking about computers and I will hump his leg.
mmm nerds :P
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A man who communicates.
A nice face with an easy smile. A smooth voice. Touchy-feely in a non-sexual way. Courteous and helpful. Interested in me.
C. :)!!
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I like a man who is attractive (to me). In other words, there has to be a spark/chemistry. Assuming the necessary spark is there, the things I like in a man include:-
Nice eyes
Nice smile
Intelligence
Sense of humour
Flirtatiousness (as long as it's directed towards me. lol)
Handyman types (I love guys who can fix things!)
Confidence, but not over-confidence
Capacity to listen and show genuine interest in what women say
There are probably a lot of other things that I can't think of right now, but those are the things that immediately come to mind.
I find confident (not *********) sexy. My guy is sexy because he is not embarrassed to be himself in any situation and is secure in our relationship. To top it off, he's intelligent and has a great sense of humor, very sexy.
A man who is self confident, funny, and genuinely interested in the woman heâ™s talking to, both physically and intellectually.
My husband doing the dishes barefoot in a tee shirt and jeans. For some reason I find this super sexy!! I tell him this and he just laughs at me.
Okay, here goes:
A well-toned body (flab free, but not necessarily bulked up)
Intelligent eyes that look me in the eye when we speak (and not at my chest)
Nice, clean, straight (or mostly straight) teeth
Fresh breath
Flattering hair cut and/or facial hair
Well-fitting clothes (no sagging pants, PLEASE)
Clean shoes
Positive outlook on life -- I can't stand a negative person -- male or female and will not hang around with them!
intelligence, confidence, his eyes, his smile, sexy legs, sense of humor, etc.
a man that has a nice smile, a sexy walk, and smell good, with clean nails (that includes all body parts), and can put a nice suite on and make it look good!!!!!!! DON'T FORGET THE SHOES..AND A GREAT PERSONALITY WITH IT ALL
I like a man who loves to talk. I find it so charming for him to chat with me about important and unimportant things. It makes me feel special when he empties his heart to me.
I also like a man who has a passion for something. I know one guy who's not very physically attractive...in fact, many people dislike him, because he's a bit strange in his ways.... but his devotion to teaching children to play sport is very attractive to me. It doesn't matter who it is....if a child wants to learn and has the will, he is there to help. (He's been doing this for at least 20 years, and many of his former pupils are very good adult players.)
I like a man who's on time. If my husband says he going to pick me up, I know...WITHOUT A DOUBT...he will be there. He's always been there for the last 13 years. I find it very attractive that it means so much for him to pick me up on time and to be reliable.
I like a guy who smells good and makes the best with what he has! Some guy aren't particulary physically attractive, but they make up for it with humor, a nice smile, and good hygiene. He doesn't have to have the most expensive clothes, but they've got to be clean, and he's got to be smelling good!
A sweaty,dirty,ruff n' tumble looking man w/great hands,who's not to skinny/and not too fat.
Nice teeth and lips... a nice butt....and for some reason I like love handles. haha!
I haven't dated in almost 3 years......I don't know and don't really care to know what sexy is.
Hhh..I do like male strippers
I also find it extremely sexy when a man show power
I like to see them fight especially if it is to protect me or something. I like when a man sweaty, covered in mud, do sport, I love when they have long hair and great body and attitude. I sure like when a man being nice and expose his feelings but you asked about sexy and that can make me feel love and compassion but will not turn me on.
A guy that doesn't have multiple personalities. A guy that is a kind of what-you-see-is-what-you-get kind of guy.
They have to smell GOOOOD.
but not tooo much, it makes me sick
gooood smile
pretty eyes
nice hair.
nice body, but not freakin buff as fuuccckk.
good personalityyyyy.
CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN
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2 words: Banana Hammock! ;P
A man who is faithful, well groomed (rough look is also nice if shaped up), who can hold a conversation for more then just 5 minutes without talking about himself or how much money he has. ( big turn off) A man who's confident yet humble is extreeemely sexy to me. Basically no clowns.
I like when a man is buff, beautiful eyes, sexy, aggressive when someone tries to hit on his women or try to dis her. crazy eyed sexual passionate. and much, much more
PS. and beautiful eyes!
What makes a man sexy to me is... someone like my husband.
1) Caring
2) Understanding
3) takes care of himself
4) A nice body doesn't hurt
5) humble (I can't stand someone who always talks about their accomplishments and crap!! Once is enough!!!)
6) not a stripper... sorry but that's not sexy to me... funny though
7) a decent dancer... *I love to dance*
8) someone whose funny (I LOVE to laugh)
9) a TRUE MAN!!!!!
10) doesn't lie, cheat, steal, kill, etc.
11) doesn't have to be a genius but having some intelligence that's slightly above normal would be nice...
12) a man with a personality
13) a man whose not afraid to be freaky every now and then
14) a man with long curly/straight hair (don't know why but that turns me on!!)
15) a man whose deeper than a puddle
The list could go on....
Glossy, fluffy, soft and warm coloured hair
i would say first his smile and his mentality about things i would ask a question that the answer would be about loving and caring stuff and if he hit somewhere in the ball park it would touch me wait......... i think a guy is sexy when he has that bad guy look like mobster guys that hot or middle eastern guy look damn thats sexy !!!!!!
Male strippers (dear and handsome as they are) have a job in the "underclass", and no measure of beauty will make up for that.
Women are searching for CHILDREN----they are sizing up men as potential daddies. This must include mental ability, sense of humor, general health, looks, cute smile, self-care, and enthusiasm for life and seriousness about earning money---hopefully enough money to fund a small family.
Women may not even know they want children, but their bodies and "inner compass" does, so "daddy-potential" is much more important than raw sexiness. They are looking also for a man who is attractive to ALL women, because that is the way they want their son to be, because that will perpetuate their genes into the future, because he'll be attractive to women. This is called the "sexy son" theory of mating.
1. Deep voice
2. Idk about those other girls but I find abs sexy lol
3. Intelligence
4. Confidence
5. Being able to handle a situation without violence
6. Strength -- both emotionally and physically--
These are not in any specific order but the most IMPORTANT one for me is accepting that "I AM FREE TO BE ME AND HE IS FEE TO BE HE !!"
In a man: long hair, intelligence, confidence, not arrogance.
Would probably also apply all that to a woman though I am not really that much into women these days.
nice hair! dyed hair!
nice hands!
smart!
and that tells me how pretty i am!
a nice package & a fat wallet.
someone who wears pink--it's manly
put my needs ahead of yours, and do it with out being told what my need are.
Totally sexy